Expect the Unexpected

Life is full of surprises. Sometimes you’re traveling along and then, without warning, the rug gets pulled out from under you. You can do several things when this happens. You can feel sorry for yourself. You can blame everyone else, including God, for the problem. Or, you can pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and keep moving. I prefer to do the latter.

I’ve learned that it doesn’t help to feel sorry for yourself. All you get is lazy and bitter and depressed. And sometimes the circumstances aren’t the fault of anyone. Life just happens. Trying to find someone to blame doesn’t help your situation, although some may argue that it makes them feel better. I think blaming others is a waste of energy and a cop out.

This is why it’s better to get up and get going. Instead of dwelling on yesterday, try thinking about the tomorrow and the day after that. Set goals to overcome the current circumstances, even if it will take time to do so. And finally, don’t forget to pray. God is not outside the box. He’s right there beside you and He is ready and willing to give you strength, courage, and peace.

In life you can expect the unexpected. Just don’t let it keep you from moving on with your life.